Brides have enough to think about when planning a wedding. Not everyone has the funds to hire a wedding planner, and those who do still seem to agonize over every little aspect of the big day. So take some advice from a seasoned bridesmaid about one detail: the bridemaids’ gifts. Here are some simple tips to help any bride choose the perfect gifts.
When it comes to your wedding, it’s important not to forget those who’ve helped you along the way — and what better way to acknowledge their contributions than with a thoughtful gift?
- DON’T give gifts that only work when matching the dress – think about it. Is it really a gift when you’re buying something to match a dress the person is likely to never wear again? This type of gift says, “I don’t trust you to wear appropriate accessories with the dress I picked out.”
- DO give gifts that match the person – think about each individual and buy accordingly. Is there a memory you share? An inside joke? Buy something that will really touch their heart or make them chuckle.
- DON’T give manicures and pedicures before the big day – your bridesmaids can take care of that. (And don’t worry, they won’t come to the wedding with florescent yellow nail polish.)
- DO give personalized bath and body gifts – think of the person’s favorite scents, colors and personality, and buy accordingly. For example, if the person is into natural products, why not give them a gift basket with organic bath and body items?
- DON’T buy a t-shirt, tank top, or sweat suit with “BRIDESMAID” written across it. Britney did this, and we all saw how that turned out!
- DO buy something they can use long after the wedding – whether it be a nice pair of earrings or a special purse, make sure it is something they will use and cherish.
- DON’T buy each person the same gift – this screams sale at Big Lots! You chose your attendants because they share a special place in your life, so personalize things a bit. This doesn’t mean monogramming a key chain, either.
When it comes to gift giving, one concept always rings true: the best gifts have a personal touch. A gift from Etsy will probably make your bridesmaids forget all about that horrible dress you made them wear (kidding!).
Here’s to all of the lovely brides out there!
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Sign in to add your ownstrozzistawzeeh says:
Great and helpful inputs! Sometimes brides are too busy thinking more about the "look" (dress , decoration, presentation )just for that single day. But sometimes might forget the more important things... the people important to us. as they said " the great things in this world is no a THING..." best wishes!
15 years ago
vintagekeepers says:
Pick up a pair of inexpensive light color gloves for all of the females.....keep them available for the final fitting(s).....it will keep them dresses smudge free....ESPECIALLY the WEDDING DAY! ONE WOULD WANT no STAINS THAT DAY!!!! Enjoy...... FRAN
15 years ago
Lara Harris from studiolara316 says:
great tips!
11 years ago
bazketmakr from bazketmakr says:
great tips for choosing gifts...it pays to t hink about it!
11 years ago
VaLon Frandsen from thevicagirl says:
What great info. I loved my bridesmaid gift, even though it went agaisnt half of your rules. It was jewelry, that went with the dress, that we all got. However, it was made by the bride, being inspired that I make jewelry myself.
11 years ago
Sydney-Ann Murray from PebbleBeachJewels says:
Great tips, interesting !!
11 years ago
La Alicia from LaAlicia says:
I like the way you think!! :)
11 years ago
Jennifer from CraftyStitches says:
Very nice.
11 years ago
Gina from backyardblessings says:
If you are doing a "destination" wedding, perhaps some special scented lotion, bath gel, shampoo or candles will help commemmorate your special event.
11 years ago
lola roque from lolitaroque says:
I saw these really cute tank tops for myself and for my bridesmaids on ETSY. They will wear these for the day after party that my mother is having for my future hubby and I. One thing is Brittany Spears so, I kind of resent that comment. Other than that, thank you for your advice!
11 years ago
bazketmakr from bazketmakr says:
good advice, really, for choosing gifts for people anytime.
11 years ago
Girlfriend Necklace from Girlfriendnecklace says:
Thanks for the great advices!
11 years ago
Celena McMahon from Rembrandtrocks says:
I So Want that Ring and Ritz cracker! Like my Alliteration!.? Smiles! Rembrandtrocks!
11 years ago
newhopebeading from newhopebeading says:
Great article! Thanks for sharing!
11 years ago
Jim McLean from BackyardBrand says:
really nice advice.
11 years ago
Amanda Zim says:
Very helpful! I was literally JUST saying to my fiance that I had no clue what to get my bridesmaids! Now I have some Ideas brewing!
11 years ago
Jessica Allison from Jessicasbridal says:
Great ideas! Most girls love bath stuff. If I was a bridesmaid I would be very happy with any of these suggestions.
11 years ago
Lindsay Muyo from LindsayDarlingg says:
I have several bridal party gifts and even accessories for the special day! Please check out my Etsy shop or my website, I would love to be able to contribute! www.lindsaydarling.com
10 years ago