Our wedding story started with our engagement — as most do! This one, however, included a song Jeff wrote and recorded with his band called “Don’t Roll Over My Heart” (I’m in a wheelchair, get it?!) set to a beautifully hand-drawn music video. How could a lady say no to that?
Unbeknownst to Jeff at the time, this poetic and artistic gesture of love opened the door for the casual, fun, bright and visually appealing wedding we were aiming for. Jeff and I own a graphic and web design company, Paper Leaf Design, and were able to take on all the design aspects ourselves — everything from the lemonade sign, to the bottled table numbers and the seating chart. The bright, bold, graphic look of all the print and stationary shaped the style of the wedding, and everything followed suit from there.
We had our ceremony in the park and were married by a pastor who was a family friend, a nice balance for Jeff, who isn’t particularly religious, and me, who is. We wanted a short and sweet ceremony, so we took it into our own hands and wrote the vows. We had some “awww” moments, some laughs and two “I dos.” Altogether, the ceremony took 12 minutes and was perfect, with touches like the tacky “Just Married” sign, the lemonade stand with my mom’s delicious lemon bars, and the surprise t-shirts our ushers made, adorned with our faces and an arrow to direct guests.
My wedding dress and all the bridesmaids dresses were custom-made by local designer Kelsey McIntyre. Being in a wheelchair, I didn’t think trying on wedding dresses would be easy, if doable at all. I also thought I’d run over a normal length dress, so a tea-length dress it was! I wanted something simple yet elegant, accessorized with a sparkly brooch and hair piece from Twigs & Honey.
We wanted our wedding party to be in something they’d wear again. My bridesmaids designed their own dresses; other than being the same material, length and having a splash of green, everything else was entirely up to them. We kept the groomsmen’s outfits fairly casual, opting for simple black dress pants and shirt, with a green tie that matched the bridesmaids’ accents. Including their checkered Vans shoes, it was much less expensive than renting a suit, and much more our style!
Our entrance song to the reception was “Don’t Roll Over My Heart,” the song Jeff wrote for the stickman engagement video. By that time, our guests had seen the video and could sing along. The reception was held at the Shaw Conference Centre in a room with floor to ceiling windows overlooking the river valley. The room also had a huge patio we lined with paper bag lanterns. We had large blank slates for walls, which gave us the opportunity to get creative; we covered them in decals customized with our apple green color. The decals were somewhat difficult to apply, but completely worth it for the impact they created.
The table centerpieces were, of course, Granny Smith apples in tall vases, small vases of hydrangeas and bottles of water with the table number on the label. The apple green proved more difficult to find than I had thought, so one of my wonderful bridesmaids sewed 120 napkins, four table runners, and pillows for the lounge — all in the name of matching!
We created a photo booth with our friend and photographer Leah, which made it more special since she has known us for years. The photo booth was one of my favorite parts; because of it, we forever have great photos of all our friends and family, as well as plenty of blackmail photos! We bought stick-on mustaches intended for the photo booth, but many guests ended up wearing them all night. For dessert, we had chocolate cupcakes with cream cheese icing or vanilla with buttercream, all under the supreme, jumbo cupcake atop the tower. The night continued with lots of dancing to our friend Joff, iDJ-ing with a fancy iPod mixer we purchased specifically for the evening.
The day wouldn’t have been half as amazing without our friends and family rallying behind us. It was exactly what we envisioned: intimate, special and, most importantly, fun.
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Sign in to add your ownVanessa from PetiteCo says:
such a wonderful story and wedding, loved it!
12 years ago
bazketmakr from bazketmakr says:
such an incredibly personal wedding! My congratulations. I am sure it will be remembered and cherished by all who attended. And you are right, who could turn down a guy who would write a song like that?!
12 years ago
Patricia Ramirez from patsdesign says:
Thanks, for sharing. Very beautiful!! Congrats
12 years ago
Eliza from floweryourself says:
Amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story. I too am in a wheelchair. I have been married 4 years and have two little boys now. They keep me busy! Wishing you two the best.
12 years ago
Eliza from floweryourself says:
wait a minute... I thought the location looked familiar. I lived in Edmonton for a few years after my accident. I also have a background in graphic design. Wow... we strangly have a lot in common!
12 years ago
urastarhouse from urastarhouse says:
FABULOUS!!!!!!
12 years ago
DeEtte from LeiLeiLove says:
Bbeautiful!!! The best weddings are those where you can tell everyone was having a blast! Congrats!!!
12 years ago
Lara Harris from studiolara316 says:
wonderful!
12 years ago
Jan Schwarzer from WexfordTreasures says:
I love your story! Beautiful wedding! Congrats!
12 years ago
jeff fulford says:
So adorable!! You two are the cutest!! <3
12 years ago
Julie from aphroditescanvas says:
Your story is just beautiful! Best wishes to the 2 of you!
12 years ago
Bec Ray from crazypanda15 says:
how beautiful <3 my bestie is a green lover and used green apples in vases too, looks fab xx
12 years ago
Kelly says:
Gorgeous!! My wedding is this July...theme is green, we are serving green apple martinis, having green apples as the centre pieces and I too, have been looking for green napkins but cannot find a good match. Let me know if you are interested in having them re-used!
12 years ago
Alison from SewBeeItClothier says:
Best wishes and continued happiness! Keep loving life! It is great!
12 years ago
JCM Art and Design from jcmartanddesign says:
Wonderful! I love a Bride and Groom that can think outside of the box.
12 years ago
Maeghan Halpin says:
Wonderful story, and awesome decor. My wedding colors are the same! Everything came out beautiful and fun!
12 years ago
Sandra Kircher from LiLinspirations says:
Lovely story!
12 years ago
Cherie Killilea from StudioCherie says:
sweet song and story Thanks for sharing!
12 years ago
Linda Rosenfeld from EmbroiderybyLinda says:
Love the originality.
12 years ago
Tori from toriska says:
What a cool wedding! Love it!
12 years ago
GoldenScribbles from GoldenScribbles says:
A beautiful wedding for a beautiful couple! Thank you for sharing your story!
12 years ago
studiokgraphicdesign from studiokgraphicdesign says:
Andrea, I just have to say you are a beautiful bride!!! :)
12 years ago
Amanda Fortier from MandaleighDesigns says:
What fun! You can tell that your day was full of joy =) Congrats!
12 years ago
Jewelrybydeedee from Jewelrybydeedee says:
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing with us.
12 years ago
Jewelrybydeedee from Jewelrybydeedee says:
What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it with us.
12 years ago
Gia Steele from PoesiaNecklaces says:
Amazing! Congrats!
12 years ago
Evelyn and Lucy from artsyEVE says:
Beautiful story and beautiful wedding. congratulations to you both! Best wishes.
12 years ago
Laurie from LillyputLaneDesignCo says:
Lovely and very sweet... Best W i s h e s
12 years ago
PlumPixy from PlumPixy says:
Congrats! Lovely wedding story
12 years ago
Shana Lyon from FabricFair says:
So sweet & fun - I'm all teary !
12 years ago
Noa Vider from noavider says:
congratulations Lovely wedding
12 years ago
maisie moon from moonmaisie says:
what a stunning gorgeous couple, and what a beautifully put together day. congratulations. xx
12 years ago
Denise Vining from kadydesigns says:
Beautiful wedding!!! Congratulations to you both!!!
12 years ago
Amanda Brown from BarkingMadBoutique says:
Beautiful! Congratulations :) I'm in love with your colour choices.
12 years ago
Lucy Ashby from bylucy says:
Your wedding looks wonderful & so much fun!
12 years ago
Isabel from MunchkinsInMind says:
Beautiful and fresh - Congrats ♥
12 years ago
Marsha (Neal) from MarshaNealStudio says:
What an awesome event! Congrats! Loved all the aspects & that engagement video Rocks!!! Party On!!!
12 years ago
Hajnalka from CupcakesTherapy says:
Congrats! You guys seem to be such a fun pair, sweet wedding great ideas and I loved the video. Cheers to a long and happy life together!
12 years ago
ArleenDesign from ArleenDesign says:
Beautiful wedding and such a lovely couple! Congrats!
12 years ago
Michelle from FoamyFactory says:
Photo booth props are sure to bring lots of fun and memories! beautiful story and pictures! thank you for sharing with us
12 years ago
Matejka Max from NattyMatty says:
Special and cool!!! Congrats!!!
12 years ago
KatrinaJayKay from ImportEyedea says:
love the modern feel of apple green + simple accents. Wishin' you two a long and happy union!
12 years ago
Martha Carter from simplymadejustforyou says:
I love your wedding!! Congratulations!
12 years ago
Elena Fom from Attractive1 says:
Congratulations! Its soooo slylish!
12 years ago
SheRocks from SheRocks says:
You are beautiful in more ways than one.
12 years ago
Mary Lezcano from BellaBboutique says:
Such a touching wedding story. Congrats! Many many years of love and happiness to you both! Ps. I loved your water bottle design labels.
12 years ago
Adriana dos Santos from AdrianaDosSantos says:
Beautiful story, amazing couple! Congratulations!!!
12 years ago
IKA PARIS from ikabags says:
Amazing! Amazing! Amazing! Congratulations!
12 years ago
Jana from bhangtiez says:
Sweet story & pictures! Thank you for sharing and Congratulations!
12 years ago
Susanne from ZOLIMA says:
loved ready your story and looking at your wedding pictures! loved the green accent! Perfect for a sunny summer wedding day! Loved the wedding attire too! I just loved it all! I wish you a long happy loving marriage:)
12 years ago
Sarah from sarahknight says:
Lovely : )
12 years ago
kristin from blackmoonsky says:
adorable!!! you two are so, so, so cute togehter :)
12 years ago
Hillary Cannon from featherletter says:
beautiful story and wedding - congrats!!
12 years ago
Suzi from OhSoEnchanting says:
Wishing you both a beautiful life! ps. love the guy's shoes!
12 years ago
M Forrest says:
Beautiful and Fun!!! Just how it should be. The wedding was looks lovely too :D Best Wishes!!!
12 years ago
DewyMorningVintage from DewyMorningVintage says:
Wonderful story and your wedding looked really fun and so personalized! I wish you the best!
12 years ago
Jess from volkerwandering says:
The song is adorable!
12 years ago
Renee Hanks from BooBahBlue says:
LOVE the song!! How could anyone say no to that!! You 2 are adorable and your wedding colors are fabulous!! Beautiful! All the best!!
12 years ago
Nakkashe from Nakkashe says:
Wonderful wedding.... Wish you happiness forever
12 years ago
Kathy Lindemer from BayMoonDesign says:
Very cool wedding! I agree that the decals were worth the effort. Much happiness to you!
12 years ago
PeaceStitchStudio from PeaceStitchStudio says:
Beautiful! Love your style, from your gorgeous gown, to the black and pops of green! Peace and happiness to your future!
12 years ago
uniquastudio from uniquastudio says:
Aaawww, they are soo sweet! Beautiful wedding, love it! Congrats and all the best for the future :)
12 years ago
maggie deLaunay from bibelotbebe says:
The whole wedding was perfect! I love the black with the apple green and his white tie to match your dress. All of it original, fun and eye-appealing. congratulations
12 years ago
Deanna Lamour from DarwinsDress says:
Beautiful!! Love the granny smith green! Those cupcakes look so delicious! Hope your life together is even better than you both have dreamed it would be!
12 years ago
Emily Delfin from reflectionsjewelry says:
awww! You two are so cute! I wish you a wonderful life together :-)
12 years ago
Alyssa Alaimo from PullTabExpressions09 says:
excellent story! you two are so adorable! i love your style, because it is my style, too! lol. love the black and granny smith green. and i love the fact that you let your bridesmaids design their own dresses. your dress was beautiful. the groomsmen looked absolutely fantastic. and the song is such a cute idea! overall, love your wedding ideas! i hope you have a wonderful life together and you have many years of happiness and bliss!!! (:
12 years ago
Thomasen says:
Love the colours! Congratulations!
12 years ago
Eri Peterson from BluefinWorks says:
love it!! Congrats!
12 years ago
Even Howard from nadene says:
Congratulations! What a beautiful wedding~love the jumping and kiss photo of the bridal party
12 years ago
Vilia Rose says:
Congratulations to you both. I loved your wedding photo with the wedding party jumping. Very cool. I have Cerebral Palsy. It has helped form the cool person I am. You and I both, I think. Cheers, Rose.
12 years ago
Polluted Essence from PollutedEssence says:
Awesome story; Congratulations!!! Absolutely loved the pictures-really like the black/lime green and the classic checkered Vans were a cool idea! :) Best wishes, Lauren
12 years ago
redvine58 from EmphaticallyYoursVTG says:
Awesome story, and fabulous ideas. Congrats. I love the lemonade stand. Thank you so much for sharing.
12 years ago
Lisset Verde-Sungur from tantancharms says:
Gorgeous weddings! You guys truly made it your own and it seems like everyone had tons of fun! Congrats!!
12 years ago
Som from SomsStudio says:
What a lovely wedding you had!! Congratulations!!
12 years ago
lunadleila from BellaMiasCollection says:
Congratulations! You guys make such a great couple! I just saw the video and it put a big smile on my face...what a great proposal!!! Many blessings to both of you and enjoy a forever lasting marriage.
12 years ago
Elizabeth Pickett from MissingHeirloom says:
What a wonderful story - Best of luck in your new life together!
12 years ago
Jennifer Vonachen from McGrawandtheGirls says:
Love the centerpieces and the color scheme! Thanks for sharing and may God continue to bless you.
12 years ago
carolyntreasures from carolyntreasures says:
Wow!!! I truly enjoyed reading your wedding story. You were a Beautiful Bride and your husband is very handsome....you two make an adorable couple. God Bless you both and much success!
12 years ago
gellibirdsattic from gellibirdsattic says:
I love this wedding and I LOVE your story, thank you so much for sharing it. It brought tears to my eyes. I have to say you look stunning in your photos. Congrats!
12 years ago
zeke sen from ZekesCrafts says:
how beautifull! Love the quirkyness :D
12 years ago
Korina Lew and John Gibson from bhive says:
Thanks for sharing! The mustaches- way too cute!! Congrats!
12 years ago
violasboutique from violasboutique says:
Everything is amazing! Congrats!!
12 years ago
PnP Vintage General from pnpvintagegeneral says:
What a beautiful wedding! Black and lime green is sooo appealing. Best wishes and love forever!
12 years ago
Chris from SockMonkeysAndBacon says:
I am bookmarking this for the day one of my daughters comes home to announce their engagement! Lovely, simple, and elegant!
12 years ago
Starfishbaby from Yameyu says:
lovely! Congrats!
12 years ago
figandfig from figandfig says:
a simply lovely affair.. congrats!
12 years ago
C Lee from EveryJobCounts says:
Beautiful ! Congratulations! Love the outfits of the bridesmaids and groomsmen. So cool!
12 years ago
Teal Walton from hillcrestestate says:
'Beautiful' is an understatement.
12 years ago
nanaandcompany from nanaandcompany says:
Thank you for sharing your precious story. May God bless and prosper your future.
12 years ago
kmclawson70 says:
I too am disabled, (Cerebral Palsy and an SCI- C7) My husband and I are going to be celebrating our 20th anniversary next March. I always tell people that it takes that extra special person to be with someone who is handicapable. Mazal Tov Andrea and Jeff, I wish you happiness, love, and joy for the rest of your lives! Many nachas (good things) for you two!
12 years ago
Liz Z says:
Your wedding looked incredibly fun! Love your style! :)
12 years ago
Laurie Lewis from ShopHedgerowRose says:
Aww, I was smiling from ear to ear the whole way through reading this. These photos are great--they truly capture how much fun everything looked!
12 years ago
Amber from BambuEarth says:
This is so sweet. That proposal video was priceless and so creative. Congrats to you both and may God shower you with blessings and may your marriage be a blessing to others. ♥
12 years ago
Alley says:
Beautiful Love story and wedding, so simple and original. Have a gorgeous and happy marriage :]
11 years ago
Jane Wu from BeadsForDreams says:
Wonderful wedding dress!
11 years ago